Depression

Question

When you are depressed because of a problem, fix it. But My life's got many problems that aren’t in my control (Example. Parents' Relationship Issues). I can do nothing about those matters even if I want them to get fixed but I'm always depressed about those problems. I'm suicidal. Got no value of life anymore.  Can't figure out a purpose to live. And additionally, I've got stress about Studies... My parents are tired of paying for my tuition et cetera but my performance in Studies are still not good. I was a really good student back then... but after I left a great tuition teacher, I can't go with it anymore. I regret that. Trying to fix these stuffs but stress keeps telling me to give up life.

alertchile0 · Answer

when there are situations in life which are out of our control..we can't fix it, so we need to fix ourself. Of course these things can be depressing but you need to pull yourself out of it. And for things like studies just do your best and after that you can learn how to keep growing and do better. There is no specific purpose in life...it should be lived with all struggles and happiness it offers, you just need the courage to go through it all.

boredtermite3 · Answer

same same with me also  I also belong to the middle class family my both parents are earning in order to give me a better life and then also my marks are not very good I tried my best to keep them happy but I always failed to do thats why  my parents are also stress beacuse of me  I guess I have taken my decision that I will. work and study like crazy this is the only thing we can  do in order to proide happiness to ourselves and our  parents  . I guess u should also do the same thing and don't feel stressed about beacuse u know na hard time brings better tomorrow even am not going any tution or coaching classes also am doing online and self  study

boredtermite3 · Answer

so don't be depressed cheer yourself beacuse god is watching u and I usually belive that God gives the problems to those people who are  worrior and who are capable to cope up with

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