Hello Rashi From your description, it can be concluded that you have created a lot of dependency on your bf which in case doesn't get fulfilled then it drives you crazy and leads to fight b/w you guys. Not every time people will be able to give you time that they used to give you. You have to understand this. Priorities change over time and you have to understand that. If you try to contact him at this time then you will only irritate him which will only make the situation worse. Give him a week's time and then after that try dropping a msg without expecting him to revert. Do it on some interval so that he doesn't feel irritated and at the same time feels you have not forgotten him. This will create a changed image of yours in his mind.

Even i wanna give him space of 1 week. But what if he thinks I'm not trying to get him back. What if he thinks everything is over and then leaves me😭❤️

Then you are in luck because its lockdown and he is not going anywhere. Even after that he leaves you then it will be for a greater good. He was not interested in keeping this thing going. You should try to indulge in other activities to deviate from his thoughts. If he comes then its great or otherwise you should think it was for better and try to move on.

Hello Rashi, you should first of all think to modify your mindset for this relationship. you needed self-care like emotionally, physically, socially. Give him space as of now and share everything by online Counseling and discuss everything.

Rashi, based on what you are telling me, I see that you carry a great sense of guilt around how you have treated your partner. If you were to seperate yourself from the anxiety of loosing him, would you say that your actions have hurt him? Regardless of what he may have done? If so, here are a few things you can do. 1. FOR NOW, let go of where you feel you have been wronged. This time is about how HE may have been hurt, not you. 2. Offer an apology, an honest to god, no excuse, free-of-any-justification-apology. If you feel that you have caused him hurt, try and generate empathy and apologize. 3. Give him some space, if that's what he needs. Apologize and let him know that you're willing to give him the space he needs. We often get apologies wrong. More often it comes from a space of defensiveness and a need to get what we want. In relationships it needs to come from a space of love and empathy for the other person. 4. In the event that he accepts your apology and wants to get back, try to learn more effective ways of communicating your needs. Remember that living relationships isnt meant to be easy and natural, contrary to what movies tell us. Relationships require a great deal if compassion (both for yourself and others), a willingness to learn and keep trying, no matter how often you fail. So work on it like you would work on developing any other skill. 5. Finally, and this is the tough part, be prepared that he may not accept your apology. In the event that he doesn't, remember that you're stronger than you think. This may seem unbearable. But the pain fades with time. I hope that things work out for you. Continue to exercise self compassion through it all. Stay strong.

I don't understand what to do. When i msg him he gets irritated and when I call him he never answers. Rather tells me don't annoy me. He is ignoring me like anything. I feel so bad. I didn't do a crime, then why is he doing all these😞😞 he is not ready to talk to me😭

Hello Rashi, Based on the above msg it looks like you don't want to listen what the experts have to say and you are overthinking too much. Remember it's our own thought that gives us pain not the prevailing conditions. So calm down and just try to divert your thoughts. After that just try to understand what the people above have to say. Don't just whine like a baby, instead take actions to come out of this situation. If he wants to leave then let it be. Just try to move on.

Rashi, I would urge that you go through the previous message again. He is feeling overwhelmed and needs space. His need for space hurts you. But for his own sake, that is what he needs. If you look at it like that, you may see that he is not out to hurt you, nor is he "doing" anything to you. He is simply taking care of himself. If he is not ready to take your call, message him your apology. And like I said before, make it free of any justifications and excuses. And then give him the space that he wants. Do what you need to take care of yourself. If it is getting too much, please reach out to a therapist. If not, talk to a friend. I know it's difficult but part of being in a relationship is being able to understand the other person's needs without making them about ourselves. Try to do that. Please note, I am saying this all based on the understanding that you feel guilt for your actions. Hope this helps