Just play the reverse Uno card.

what do you mean?

@needfulTruffle5... reverse uno card means?

first you answer few questions: 1. you want him to miss you? 2. or you want this feeling to go away?

I want him to miss me

Atleast as a friend he can keep contact to me ... i want him in my life.. he is special for me

i totally understand you. I can suggest you a way to keep contact with him but it will be difficult for you in long run. I have been through the same phase.

what should i do then... is it a best thong to forget him and move on?

I will tell you how it will go and you don't have to feel bad for the event which are gonna happen with you. 1. you will act stupid and call him 2. you will text to other guy to forget him. 3. His social media presence and his happiness without you will make you feel anxious. please try to avoid 2 and 3 point. Just got someone friend or stranger who understands you well and doesn't make you feel bad for your feelings for him. you need support that's it.

@needfulTruffle5 You are absolutely right and resonates me❤... I guess keeping some distance is good for me right?

No. who told keeping distance is good. be social otherwise you will end up like me 😂. Just kidding But if you want to avoid his presence then avoid him completely for a short period of time (but you will get nightmares till 6 months). You have to strong and that time you will need someone to hold you and your feelings. if you can control and hold your feelings you are blessed. if not you will regret later. I am sorry for being harsh that's the experience which I have got.

i have made a small group, try it , you can find some support here

@needfulTruffle5... yes I am socialising... it is helping me to come out from this...

yes and totally cut off is very difficult... so how to deal such things... like do we have to detach with small small steps?

yes and totally cut off is very difficult... so how to deal such things... like do we have to detach with him with small small steps

what u said i totally agree... when i see hia social media pics hanging with our mutual friends.. it feels kinda pain in chest

what you said is if true (about pain) then be aware to whom you are talking a single negative person will ruin your a very special age of your life. Be choosy if you can share with cousin or friends (if they can understand you). Then do it and if not. It will be very difficult buddy. it all depends upon your surroundings. I got negative friends i end with loosing them all. it affect psychological also. i wish you get someone to understand you around your sphere. It will help you. I didn't understand about the last one how can you forget someone step by step. that's not possible. like forgetting name then pic. It is not practical.

no not forgetting them... forgetting someone is not possible... but atleast we neet to slow down some emotions right... coz in my case i care for him lot..... i get Q in my mind like how's he, hows his work going, like how we care for our family.. the same feeling I feel for him...

I have shares this with friends... yes with whom we share is very important... my friend is good and sensitive. but I don't y still i did not feel like I have moved on.