hi so I have a boyfriend but we're currently in long distance. we saw each other April start last and now will see each other in June or July. so while we were together we obviously got s*xual & it was my first time going beyond the base 1 (making out and all) & just did hand stuff but I didn't let him take my pants off & he basically only touched from outside. though I really wanted to go beyond it, I am really insecure and conscious about my body. my bf never said anything about it & says I am beautiful & everything still I feel really insecure. and there's a confession i need to make,so, I have never put stuff up my vag (never fingered myself or used a tampon or anything) & I tried to finger myself a couple times but couldn't and the next time I see my bf I really wanna get fingered or even have sex maybe. I want to know if it's okay to just let my boyfriend's finger be the first thing to go in or i should try it out myself(if 2nd then please how to do it😭)

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shivam001 · Answer

this is totally normal talk with your bf

superiortacos2 · Answer

idk dude I'm kinda shy😭☝️

shivam001 · Answer

then you tube it

sugarycordial2 · Answer

I think you guys should talk it out and communicate,and if you wanna try it yourself first then go for itt. There are plenty of videos that explain the process thoroughly. I actually don’t like the fingering thing at all,and prefer clitoris stimulation. Find out if you wanna try it out before fingering.

superiortacos2 · Answer

yeah ig so too I have also ever masterbated via clitoris stimulation but yeah I think before I have sex i should know beforehand how it might be 😭

blissfuldoughnut8 · Answer

It took me 1 year to have sex after constantly trying, just becuz i have had bad anxiety. I started off by fingering myself and getting real comfortable masturbating first. Get a mirror find the whole and see how it feels. If it feels like hitting a wall, u might want to calm down and breathe. My boyfriend was 16 years elder to me and so was very careful and didnt just want to bang me out of hornyness. He cared for me like i am a normal human being who feels pain, probably one of the reason it took so long to actually penetrate. I still dont get as wet when he fingers me or rubs my clit as i get when i do that to myself, but we started by using lubricant which helped. First fingering then keep increasing by one finger and then put the penis in. And you will have to communicate. For me i couldnt fuck someone i cant tell everything to, when it finally got in and i was in pain i just told him to stay in there without moving and then move really slow. And he agreed. After a while the pain left and the pleasure kicked in and made me feel the pain was worth it. OVERCOMMUNICATE!!!

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