how to calm down my insecure feeling towards my bf.. he is fed up of me and i am fed up of my insecurities.

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needybuzzard3 · Answer

just try to trust him

Lucifer01x · Answer

trust him

rrkk · Answer

i really try my best but we are in a long distance relationship

rrkk · Answer

so I can't handle her friends or anything and i make things worse

Recovering_babe · Answer

some people need lots of reassurances to feel secure. respect what you're feeling. don't disrespect your own feelings.

Overhuman · Answer

leave him & enjoy ur single life🥳

rrkk · Answer

yes but my bf doesn't understand my emotions.. he even blames me and keeps getting my past in between

rrkk · Answer

pls help me

Overhuman · Answer

quality is better than quantity.....be with just one bf in ur entire life and Marry him....from ur comment it feels like u hv affairs earlier also

Recovering_babe · Answer

you have to stand your ground. and ask for understanding in the relationship. if he's not understanding... at one point you stop talking.

rrkk · Answer

yes I had A bad past. my partner cheated on me .. so now I can't trust anyone and this thing makes everything worse

Overhuman · Answer

u should remain single from now onwards & focus on ur education or a good job..... Leave everything on Ur Parents they will find the right one for u....I know it's a step below impossible for u but u hv to do that, to show that u character is neat & clean & yes u can live without Boys

Overhuman · Answer

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rrkk · Answer

may b you are right . i am already well settled in my life ..but i am so so attached to him that i can't leave him. he is so loyal.. it's just my trust issues that i am not able to handle

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?