Family issues

Question

I spoiled the cupboard at home. My mum wanted to hit me but scolded me instead. She said nasty words and called me names. She also told me off for buying the lanyard more for children. I like lanyards that I can hang on my neck. My mum said that my parents have no money to buy a new cupboard.

awedtuna2 · Answer

how old are you if I may ask? your mom is probably stressed becasue they need money, but she probably didn't mean to take it out on you, you should try and understand her and not be angry at her, but also don't be angry at yourself

bubblypaella9 · Answer

I am 24 going 25. you sound very understanding

awedtuna2 · Answer

well I had many fights with my mom too 🤣 and tbh now I miss them as her mental health issues made her too calm and too quiet

bubblypaella9 · Answer

I see. someone suggested that I should move out

awedtuna2 · Answer

I can't tell you what to do, it's up to you... do you have a job, do you know where you would move?

bubblypaella9 · Answer

Yes but part time and salary is low

awedtuna2 · Answer

then maybe you should wait at least save some money first

bubblypaella9 · Answer

I don't have friends so I am thinking either to stay at home or build up finances

awedtuna2 · Answer

I mean I moved back in with my parents after 10 years 🤣 I'm 27 now... it is hard to get used to it but I just had to because I was pretty much broke, in the end I could only pay rent and barely have any money left so I'm planning to stay with them until I save at least for rent for a few months so I would suggest you the same... or either pay the new cupboard 😂

bubblypaella9 · Answer

Ok

awedtuna2 · Answer

I mean just don't rush, just because of one fight, but if you decide to leave, make sure you can really take care of yourself

bubblypaella9 · Answer

that's not only one fight. we fought often

awedtuna2 · Answer

I understand. I'm just saying plan carefully so that you don't make your life even more difficult. Can you find a roomate? Like another girl, someone you can trust, where do you plan to go?

bubblypaella9 · Answer

Roommate? is there an app?

awedtuna2 · Answer

I don't know how it is in your country, here some people search on Facebook like there is a page for that

bubblypaella9 · Answer

Oh. I am from Singapore

awedtuna2 · Answer

Maybe try google it... no idea I am from Bosnia

bubblypaella9 · Answer

I saw a room rental Facebook group so I joined

awedtuna2 · Answer

ok good 😊 I hope you find a nice roommate

bubblypaella9 · Answer

I stayed in a hotel for three days 2 nights before but it was wrong. I think my parents might be upset if I move out

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

hello

Frustrating

help me please