what is the reason for you to feel this way

it looks like first life made me live alone for last 8-9 years and I was used to live that way and it was not stress maybe because I had stopped or never trying to do any new things or learn adult skills and adult communication and all ...but in last 5-6 months, I feel that suddenly life remembered that I was left so much behind in this world, so it did something and now everything which was left suddenly started happening and too fast.. but how to grab all these ...

i don't know what to do... everyone seems to be very far now as per today world norm....and I am still living in older world so huge mismatch is happening

its not your fault,you were doing your best to survive and didnt know any other way,stop camparing with people who haven't faced your side of struggle,you are on your own race and you are amazing as you are.growth is step by step

thanks for your words...it's just sometimes it gets too stressed to feel myself so behind....rather than accepting i am struggling again and again by procastinating the changes happening as I fear I may fail this adulting phase

you not alone,i myself feel the same am 23 my sister is 18 and she has a child,most of the people we grew up as friends most have kids and i know the pressure,right now am going through the same thing,just go easy on yourself,changes comes slowly you cant wake up one day and say am done growing,and nobody told you you gonna fail,i fee the struggle you put on yourself and that enough to know you are trying and thats the point,dont ever stop trying,

oh....you are also going through something similar.....you know there is always a fear in mind that my thinking ability is till only a limited point and I can't think beyond that

even those you think that dont struggle with this thought,they do just believe in your abilities know even if they are limited they are you and as long as you keep learning about you and you matter thats where the game start,growing up just means knowing where to say yes or no,time to appreciate who you are and keep focusing on the things you want and also loving yourself like never before

correct... can you give some suggestion on below thing which I am currently going through....I am stuck between retaining in the current company who is extending the package little more or should join new organisation which is giving a little high package... although I am still not bothered about package...I just want to not work in pressure or load...as in new place , I have to start atleast from beginning and in current company I am working from last 2 years....I am not bothering about package at all ..I just want to choose one.. which I am not able to do from last 2 weeks...my mind is switching between both...as for new company..I have to start learning something's again and my mind is saying that you will not be able to perform better in that...and in current organization...I don't have any feeling like this..means I don't know if I like my current work or not. .I am just doing it unknowingly as it doesn't give pressure