feeling distant in a relationship, partner isn't putting much effort
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My relationship had issues from the start, mostly created by me and my negativity. But now my boyfriend has become so distant that conversation have been replaced with silence for days and months and memories have been replaced with anger and fear. Everytime I think I will have a word with him, it turns into a fight. Because obviously I have fought so much in my past that now that he thinks I only interact to fight. We hardly speak or interact, and because of the lockdown we haven't got any chance to meet. I am so confused that I don't know what to do and if i am wrong or I am making excuses for him. He always tells me that I cannot accept him for the person he is. He is introvert. But nowadays I feel like I don't exist for him. I don't know what to do?

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