Getting feared of marriage

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My parents are planning for getting me married in 2 years. I am scared for a complete arranged marriage. What if I will never be able to adjust with the person. What if the person parents find for me is opposite my character.                                              I am not in any relationship. I wish I meet my soulmate. I was always worried to be in any relationship due to my inferiority complex. I am not good at dancing and singing, I even don't know to chill at parties. My friends have even teased me that guys won't be interested in such type of boring girls.                    I am worried how will I lead my married life. I fear what if my partner get bored of me . I fear what if my future husband go for some other ladies.

jandi · Answer

hi

jandi · Answer

Dont worry everything will be fine

loveroflife · Answer

who said?

satesh · Answer

looks like you have lot of worries. but it's still two year after. first make ur self free from guilt like u don't know dance or singing . it's not required anywhere. I find love marriage n arrange marriage at equal level. in arrange marriage also u can get better person, person who can understand u. and yes what's a chill means? it's like do what u like to do. when u start doing what u love to do, u will never be boring. it's always about doing things u love and care for people who cares u. nothing more. and don't be negative at all.

contentcaribou1 · Answer

hello there

contentcaribou1 · Answer

are you on telegram

loveroflife · Answer

i already have inferiority complex issues. how will I lead a married life with an unfamiliar person. what if i get depressed again.

loveroflife · Answer

hi @content

loveroflife · Answer

i am not in telegram, sure we can chat here

contentcaribou1 · Answer

ok... so stop overthinking dear... and your family will respect your decision they will ask you for sure whether you want to.share your life with that person or not

satesh · Answer

be confident, remove inferiority complex. start talking people. and wht makes u feel inferior?? find out and do practice to remove it

satesh · Answer

@at point of time, I used to think that my name is not good, I m not good looking n I m unable to talk, I can't speak english etc etc . now I feel I m good at what I look, I can talk to people at least, in last one year I started speaking in English also

loveroflife · Answer

what makes me inferior is my disability to either dance or sing. I have reduced my inferiority complex in all other matters. but this fact of not being talented makes me inferior around everywhere

contentcaribou1 · Answer

dear... if you cant dance and sing its ok... it doesnt matter... the person is looking for a lofe partner not for a entertainment....

contentcaribou1 · Answer

life*

satesh · Answer

as I told u dance n music is not important. may be somewhere but now a days no one really care . secondly u can learn if u realy want to learn. no force. and it's about basic only . not specialist

contentcaribou1 · Answer

she is correct... dear dont think too much

loveroflife · Answer

i am scared because I have heard that guys are interested and attracter towards girls who are into dancing and singing......i don't know a thing in dancing and singing, even if I try I'll be an idiot

loveroflife · Answer

*attracted

contentcaribou1 · Answer

well... its not like that.. he iwll love you what you are... dont need to change you for anyone

satesh · Answer

@contentcaribou1, I m He😀

contentcaribou1 · Answer

hello

satesh · Answer

not every boy expect there partner to be good singer n dancer. and those who expect not everyone get the same. we human being cannot excell in everything and all male knows that. so u r wrong about it that everyone want to marry some dancer n singer. all male n female want good life partner

contentcaribou1 · Answer

i agree...

contentcaribou1 · Answer

well now you are ok dear...  .   are you there??

satesh · Answer

hey content, how r u n what do you do

contentcaribou1 · Answer

i am fine... and i am student

satesh · Answer

ok. good. hope you doing well

contentcaribou1 · Answer

yaa kind of... what about you?

loveroflife · Answer

yeah I feel good@contentcariboul

satesh · Answer

ok good. today I was low in evening. so just thought to come here and share what I feel about life . I just want myself to keep busy

contentcaribou1 · Answer

great.. if you ever make telegram account so

contentcaribou1 · Answer

@goodtotalktoyou is my id i will try to help you ... altough i am younger ... but still

moongdull · Answer

Make your career, connections, stay safe and stay true to yourself and never be afraid. Don't get convinced out of fear.

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