I don't know.....am I right?

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how can I get rid of toxic people........people say me...they asked me for help because I said I will help them....so they don't consider it as a help....my best friend says people hide things still she says it to me.....it's like she wants me to be grateful to her aa I reject some of her ideas that can harm her........ is caring about a girl when u r a boy....requesting her weird ideas that can actually cause her harm....saying her to do which is right for her ......    is it bad? does independence for a girl means she can do what she feels like without thinking that something can actually harm her? does independence mean letting her to get exposed to alcohol, porn, drunkard, fake people and not say her that can actually harm her?......I don't ever say her to not to talk with a person who is right in attitude and knows to respect people....

PoiseRider · Answer

I completely got ur point.. you are so concerned abt her.. here in this world people won't understand gud word's, they completely ruin their lives for temporary fun and ignore our word's.. as a gud friend it's ur responsibility to make her understand, tel her thing's.. if she doesn't understand, let her become victim.. later she ll realise and come back to u.. some people understand truth by word's, some people understand it when they become prey.. end of the day everyone should realize wats gud and wats not.. truth ll be revealed finally..

miniselfishPear6 · Answer

I get it. You want her to be safe, right? And being a girl myself, I can tell you that some of the girls have still gotten the wrong idea about freedom. I just think you should tell her what you feel is right or wrong and let her decide what to do for herself. if she's smart enough she'll know you're right...

perceus12galactus · Answer

@miniselfishPear6 she is not so smart to take decisions.......she fights with me for wht she thinks is right....she taunts me...

perceus12galactus · Answer

@PoiseRider u r right...but uk it takes time after the mess is created...it takes 2 to 3 days...and we both are high school students....so it's a time waste to get into problems

perceus12galactus · Answer

but now she  isn't with me anymore....it feels so cold to feel these instances in my life....I think it's serious affecting my worsening health and studies too

miniselfishPear6 · Answer

@perceus12galactus Well then I think you're doing your part perfectly but you can't stop her from doing something that's right only according to her. You see, it's her fault, not yours. And she'll know that you were right once the consequences hit her.

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