I dont know what's going on #p2

Question

so recently I decided to be honest with him, and I asked him why we seem interested one day and then the next its just pure silence. he told me he was 'doing what I was doing' . I told him that it's best if we don't keep in contact anymore because it always ends up being messy.  and he said 'doesn't matter for me'.he is bad at expressing how he feels. I have a feeling he cares. but now it's really over.💔

nauseatedperson · Answer

you cannot force that out of him. if he cannot express then it's his problem you don't need to ruin your mental health because of it

Ineedabreak · Answer

okay, should I just put this in the past and move on?

Ineedabreak · Answer

what if he realises one day?

nauseatedperson · Answer

look decide on the factors you have infront of you. Rn tbh he is being toxic and maybe he will realise it or he will not. but you cannot stop your life can you? So just try to move on. if he comes he comes and if he doesn't he doesn't

Ineedabreak · Answer

okay thank you so much!

Ineedabreak · Answer

and the thing is, we go to the same school and I get to see him everyday, it's so hard.

nauseatedperson · Answer

ohh.. then it'll be a bit hard.. but tell your friends about it. I am sure they'll help. Try to avoid him for some time.

Ineedabreak · Answer

my friends knew from last year..till now, and tbh we all crazy so taking their advice rn would be self-sabotage . 😭

Ineedabreak · Answer

and even though we never had anything serious, we knew we liked each other, he showed he cared by the way he reacted in some situations. I think when I left him on delivered it really hurt him. I feel so bad.

nauseatedperson · Answer

what you can do is better yourself rn. nothing else. he can do whatever he wants. if he wants it to continue he'll come.

Ineedabreak · Answer

if he wants to come, I won't accept cause I can't be with someone who doesn't know what they want.

nauseatedperson · Answer

okay good. That type of mindset is good.

Ineedabreak · Answer

you're right, I need to better myself because in the end, it's my mental health I'm ruining.

Ineedabreak · Answer

thank you so much!

nauseatedperson · Answer

you can come here anytime you want and ask anything. if not me then there are other great people here who are willing and eager to help you

Ineedabreak · Answer

okay, really appreciate your time and effort. and once again thanks sm for your advice and help 💗

Ineedabreak · Answer

I'll let you know what happens in the future. 😭😭

nauseatedperson · Answer

sure😊

Shreya12 · Answer

Good. don't trust your feelings. go by his words. or else you will struggle later because then you will know that you assumed something that wasn't true

Ineedabreak · Answer

@shreya12, yes thank you. I agree with you opinion 100% .

always4u · Answer

we can have a change if we talk.. so try to

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?