I left my husband and now he is acting like a child... constantly calling, texting, worrying about stuff and freaking out about all the things. problem is he has mental health issues so he is telling everyone I am horrible for leaving him since he is sick. his mental health issues mean he acts like a bully, jerk, hurtful, angry and mysteriously doesn't remember his actions. he shows no affection, except when other folks want to hang out ...like he's all over me trying to prove something or he insists that I never want to hang out with him...just as I am trying to go out the door with friends who cared enough to call or check in or make plans in advance. I can't get past the fact that he has no idea what I need or want in the relationship until I say I am done with it...then all of a suddent he can figure out how to be Mr. perfect. it's manipulation in my book and 25+++ years is way too many.