I'm lost.

Question

I'm lost. I always feel sad nowadays. if I'm with people feels like they ll get bored because of me. Lost confidence in work as well. feels like ending everything in life. no hope, no happiness, no confidence. no interest too. forgot how to live life.

uralienfriend · Answer

maybe it's time to start again something new we all hit rock bottoms but hey why complain about how things are and make efforts to change them

spiritedpudding3 · Answer

I don't have any motivation or hope left

uralienfriend · Answer

u need motivation for things u don't like to do or something u hate but for what u truely want to do or be it Ur happy place

uralienfriend · Answer

what is truely bothering u friends? future?

spiritedpudding3 · Answer

myself! I m trying to accept myself but I couldn't do it

uralienfriend · Answer

u did accept ur self just not in the image of others of what they think

uralienfriend · Answer

so ur gng to work i get it social anxiety

spiritedpudding3 · Answer

yes I always think how badly I'll be judged

uralienfriend · Answer

honestly u can just walk in a room think how people are going to judge or u can walk in like u own the place ur stressed about something that u don't entirely know what's going to happen maybe try once go in their give ur best

spiritedpudding3 · Answer

stressed bcs of many incidents where I reacted like a dumb person nd ppl laughed

uralienfriend · Answer

if those incidents have happened then uk what things to do Better

uralienfriend · Answer

can i know more about u, what u do

spiritedpudding3 · Answer

I am an IT employee. I have never been cheerful nd happy from quite a few days. now I fear nd bother for everything around me which is affecting my work life also. I'm not been good at it

uralienfriend · Answer

the best advice i think i can give u is ur not ready ur pushing ur self into something u don't want to right now maybe take a few days off for urself? do self help things watch something that makes u feel better i dont mean just take some days off and stay free realise what is going on with u and how u can be the best version of u

spiritedpudding3 · Answer

I have tried that too.. I will be ok for few days and again I will be like this..

uralienfriend · Answer

i did a start up and there were times i felt like i need to stop this managing a whole team and getting on with it everyday was hectic i thaught i liked doing but it wasn't what i thaught it to be

uralienfriend · Answer

and then i sold it just to realise there much more things i need to explore and truely find things where i can be the most confident it's like it was made for me to be here

spiritedpudding3 · Answer

I agree failure leads to right path! but my mind is not ready to accept it.. I always fear for everything wat if it fails, more than others blame me for my mistakes I do it to myself. I couldn't be kind to myself

uralienfriend · Answer

uk when i did a start up i bunked my college i never went to college not even once a month i was working on my start up no one in my family knew untill one day my college professor decided to show up in my home it was a real hell for me my parents my relatives were called probably the darkest days of my life

uralienfriend · Answer

they say when ur gng through hell keep going u don't wanna stop

uralienfriend · Answer

success is for the 1% most things may not work out why not just fail better? the wolrd will stand against u but will happen to u unless u believe in ur self and u put ur self together

uralienfriend · Answer

it's hard but hey that's how life is right u need to be there for urself it's long way but starting out now to empower ur self if taking off those days dint work then it's time u really push ur self to be a better u and soon enough u will be the better u

uralienfriend · Answer

u will look back and smile that u really did this it is only the preset u need to push for a better future

spiritedpudding3 · Answer

u r right! thank you for this. I will try my best to fight this

hello

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?