issues in family because of boyfriend

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issues in family because of boyfriend

Am in Love with divorced guy, my family is not accepting this relation rather they want me to stay single for whole life. Am so attached with the guy that am not able to think of anyone else and same with him. My relations with my family are getting worst but am not able to go against them also

Chitra

11 Answers
Sunshineme
This could only work if you guys are on same page. Ask him to talk to your parents
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. Try to talk to your parents about how you feel about this person and marriage is a matter of life and happiness. Will they be okay seeing you unhappy be it single or married to someone else? Also are you guys sure about each other. Are you sure it’s not just attachment.
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Chitra
Yes we are sure about each other, they know that I won't be agreeing for anyone else so they are saying me to be single , they are not happy at all My relations with my parents are getting worse day be day
Chitra
This issue has taken my mental peace and am not able to focus on anything , stepping back is like cheating myself
Zoya Ahmad
Talk to your parents calmly and tell them that this thing is ruining your relationship with them and you are not liking it. Ask your parents to meet the guy try to know him first and then take a decision.
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Chitra
I am requesting them again and again , they are firm on there decision, and now am feeling like quitting from home , not marrying the guy but for living for my own and they are agreeing on this too
Chitra
They are not agreeing on mine quitting from home too and I feel suffocating at home
Zoya Ahmad
Give yourself some time and give them time too. May be after sometime they will agree? What do you think?
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Chitra
Am loosing myself, it's already more than 6 months. Am not even able to concentrate on my career. Sometimes I blame myself to get into these situation coz my friends were like this I know since beginning , but when It happened I didn't realised and there is no way back frm here
Chitra
Coz my family* was like this only
Zoya Ahmad
Give yourself sometime. Let things be the way they are. Focus on other things. Shift your focus on yourself and your career for a while.
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