Have you tried talking to your wife about it may be she could talk to them and make things a little better.

Done that .. but someway or the other I don't feel the warmth. I lost my father at a young age. He had this habit of drinking. Many people would call me a son of a drunkard. I made it a point in my life to earn respect. I worked really hard got a decent job at a young age and yes, i have achieved that sense of respect in the society. But my in-laws just rejected me on the basis of my religion . I always tried to make myself the best at everything I did but this is something I can never change no matter how hard I work . The sad part is that my wife doesn't understand me and tbh I really need a confidante to speak my mind . I somehow feel I shouldn't have eloped with my wife and married into such a family . I know it's difficult for my wife to confront her family , but it kills me when she doesn't . I feel I have wasted my life . We married secretly at 23 years old and was well established govt. Officer by then already . I helped my wife with her career and contributed somewhat on she being a dietician.( Though she doesn't work and prefers being at home ,which I don't like )

Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I can see that it is definitely affecting your mental Health. This needs to be resolved. Do you mind connecting over a session to discuss things in detail?