I am a 28 year old married guy . My wife eloped with me 3 years ago and we decided to marry. Even though i had a respectable job in the govt sector , my in-laws were against our marriage. I really love my wife but I feel that something is wrong. I always wanted to marry a working lady( professional) ,but my wife is quite the opposite . I feel my wife doesn't try hard enough .She is just too lazy . I feel I am the only one putting in all the effort . Slowly the love is disappearing I feel .Moreover my laws are really okay with out marriage now and it pains to see my brother in-law get the love from his in laws and the respect which I was always deprived of . It really damages my self esteem and this often leads to a fight with my wife .