Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure it must be sad to see your best friend behave in the way you never expected. But you also need to understand that what he dis was wrong. It means he had wrong intentions. If he is guilty for his mistake and you’re also ready to forgive then you should briefly talk to him. Talk about your expectations and be very clear. Ask him to respect your boundaries.

yes He was upset he hate himself for doing that and he apologized i forgived and cheered him up ,but for me because of this one mistake i dont want to lose this bond which is very true by heart ,He itself never expected that this will happen..but the thing is now he dont want to Continue this friendship ,he feels guilty i think...but yesterday night I spoke to him like i know very well about you ,you are always my santa ,Dont Degrade yourself ...if you are happy then definitely i will also stay happy...even yesterday i called him santa But He sent me a sad emoji , that made me to think he feels really guilty and He is making himself alone...so thats why I chilled him with my Words...and i told him one thing ,if you really want to meet me, i will be there for you...and iasked him one question ,did i make you happy? his reply was - you gave me the out of world feeling thats why i came everytime to meet you.. so some emotional conversations went this way and we are still in contact , but the friendship is not going to be the same anymore because he doesnt want to meet me..and i told him one thing, More than this problem the only thing which is making me sad is...thAt we are not going to meet, not able to see my santa :/ ...and after That conversation went formally.. after all this i feel relaxed after pouring out what i feel..and the saddest thing is i will be shifting to some other place just an hour difference ...But we had a beautiful memories to cherish forever..that the only thing which is left out...so I gave him the space like You are always my santa , I never feel bad about you ,i can understand what you feel..we both cared each other alot , lessons learnt should i text him daily like im staying in your life even we are not meeting...or What should i do to cheer him up?

and also he mentioned one thing which made me happy,he said hereafter the only girl im going to get close is my wife

and told that he will tell about me to his wife

I am glad that you guys talked. I think both of you need some time off to think about this and process whatever happened. He is also disturbed he also need to forgive himself I think. Don’t push yourself in his life. You can still be in each other’s life like you used to but for the time being try to take a break. After few days when the guilt will subside you guys will be able to talk normally. Because it’s very initial the awkwardness is bound to happen. I am glad he mentioned something that made you happy.

Thank you so much for your concern ,As you Said I Will Take break , but he doesn't want to continue so I don't know what will happen .. I will text him or i will go to his place before shifting I don't think so he will come and meet me ,but once we meet I will make Him to feel better!

Taking A break is Good Let him Forgive Himself Will see What Happens Next i will concentrate in my work so If anything needed will ask you

i will message him before leaving

Just don’t push yourself, you’re on break you can tell him post shifting whenever you decide to talk to him. Just take good amount of time. Like a month or so. It will make you realise a lot of things. Make yourself a priority.

okay sure

after few days silence we met today...And we spoke so many things ,he shared his point of view what he was thinking,and told me what i did ,so we Just clarified each and every thing clearly , some misunderstandings got cleared for both of us , It was a Very Good Dayyy, have never expected this will be solved soon....i got my santa back :) thankyou so much

just realized Best Friend Matters alot

we just met for an hour but It really Made us peacefuL and it was awkward at the beginning even to stand near by..but at the end we went happily by holding hands! (i did)

That’s great. Whatever works for you. Just be careful that you don’t hurt your feelings.

sure sure Thank You !