Hey, I dont know if yours was arranged or love marriage or for how long you have been married for. Sexual rejections kills our selfesteem and wonder what is wrong with us that our partner doesnt find us attractive. But according to me it goes much deeper. May be he is not comfortable with his ownself. Try and talk to him and ask why is he doing for what he iis doing. This could be with his own mental stability that effecting it or anyother underlying problem. A baby is just gonna complicate this more, beecause you might feel stuck and would start to hate him more. Convince him for a couples therapy after you trying to talk it out. I hope you find your answers here to get neccessary help

No two people ever have the same level of desire. A mismatch is in fact inevitable in most cases. This mismatch when not handled well can create a lot of resentment in a relationship. I see that is what has happened to you. Is abuse involved? If not, there can still be a lot of anger. Of you wish to continue with the relationship but on better terms, it may help to seek couples counselling. Convincing your partner for the same may not be very easy. But try to communicate how important this relationship is to you and how you want to improve it. As for your question about hating sex. Sexual desire is a complicated mix of our fantasies, social expectations, taboo and fears. When we feel continually rejected, we can think that we hate sex. What we really may be hating is the feeling of shame, inadequacy or rejection that comes with the other person's response. Simply put, it is understandable that you would feel like this about sex given your situation. That however doesn't mean that things can't change and improve. Like I mentioned before, couples counseling will be very helpful.