Sarah5021 I'm very sorry to hear that. It seems like you are in love with someone who is not willing to fight for the relationship. Caste and class differences can become a major road block in getting parents' approval. In most cases one has to be prepared for complete resistance. With that siad, one partner cannot face that resistance alone. Both partners have to do it together. It seems that your boyfriend is not ready to take on that resistance. In such a scenario, it may help to re-evaluate what you value in a partner. Does this person meet those criterias?

We are same caste only.He used to travel 2hrs just to meet me for 5 min.. he used to care me alot.. he became friends with all my friends and made sure I stayed happy all the time.. but now he feels bad that he is making me feel low and he feels I won't be happy if I am gona marry him and also he isn't able to fight back to his mom as she is weak in recent times and even if he fights and we get married he says his house will blame me for things that happen and I will not be happy with him . But am not able to accept it.. I have hope that his parents might change their mind..but he says no it's difficult and he doesn't want to continue this relationship and develop more feelings and stopped talking to me..

Whether or not his parents change their mind is dependent on how willing your partner is to push for your marriage with him. It is only in the event that you both can present such a untied and solid front that one can hope to change their mind. Such unity is also what will be a strong point for a happy and successful marriage. Unless your partner is willing to take such a stance, your hoping that they will change their mind is futile. Nothing will come out of it. If however your partner is unwilling to dot hat, you may have to start thinking about what you can do to take care of yourself.

Yeah but now am confused wether to make my parents talk to his parents or not.. because when he himself feels they might reject .. I am afraid of a rejection again and this time it will be for my parents too.. ☹️ should I drop this for my parents.. . or should I fight for someone I love?

And He is willing to take stance but afraid that I will be blamed in his family for everything which will affect our future life

The final decision has to be yours. Whatever you do however is dependent on whether you and your partner are on the same page before you involve parents. It may help to have a very honest conversation with your partner that is he willing to stand with you and follow through. If he is not ready and willing to do so, involving family will not change that.

Thankyou! I will give him some space and time for a while... And then talk clearly..