problems with parents and attempted suicide

Depression

Iam 18 years old. I have many problems with my parents.. My parents did not allow me to study with my best friend. That caused a lot of problem and I tried suicide. That again made things worse.. My mom called my best friends mom and quarrelled with them. All those was a big fight and now I am not allowed to meet my friend or even talk with her. But I am in the same college where she is. But my parents doesn't know that I am friends with her.. They never allow me to even call her or talk.. I do everything in secret.. Now.. Because of this problem.. I meet her secretly.. I chat with her secretly.. Everything is a secret.. There are fights between me and my friend as I cat spend time with her during these holidays as my parents are at home.. Her birthday is on Nov 1 and I don't even know if I can meet her.. I can't go shopping with her.. Meet her.. I can't even call her.. She is so tired of all these.. Even I am tired too.. I experience anxiety every time I meet her.. Because I fear if my parents will find out.. I can't breathe at that time.. I feel dizzy.. I don't know what to do.. How should I solve all these problems.. How can I experience a normal life as all others of my age have..

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9 Answers

Sunshineme

First ask your parents why they have a problem with her? Once you know then try to clear out. Because what you are going through is not healthy

I tried.. They just answer that they don't like her. And I should not meet her

Everyone has a feeling, what do you think? Why dont they like her

Sahitya MG

Hi. I understand your anxiety and fear. But it's important to know the reason why your parents don't like her. So that later you can try resolve the problem. Time might be tough at present. With tine things will fall in place.

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I asked them directly... But they say I should not have close friends.. I think my mom is so controlling.. She just needs me under her control.. But when I am with my friend.. I like my friend so much and I never said anything against my friend even if my mom beat me..

You know your life better. You know who will be good for your mental health. Hence don't loose hope. Fight for your friend. Also try to explain your parents why she is important to you. If they are still opposing then it's you who decides weather give your life in their control by doing what they want you to or keep it in your control. Take stand for your self.

I am really willing to open up and oppose my parents.. But I fear that if I do so.. Then they would never pay my college fees.. So.. I felt that.. If I wait till my last year's fees to be paid and then open up and tell about their mistakes..but I really am not able to hold up till 2 years long for my degree to get completed.

That's the decision you have make. Ask your self what you want? What will keep your mind at peace?. Try making pro con chart for both the situation. And make a informed decision

What if the pro I get is exactly what I need.. And con is more terrifying which I can't bear? What if my decision.. May leave me homeless... And make more troubles..

Frustrating

help me please

how do I change for the better?

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