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hi, i am not feeling good , i always struggle with my mind and people around me ,i got married in 2020 ,the men who love me and i love him i knew him last 6 years but now everything changed , i left the job for marrige but now i feel worthless for everyone .His family always humilate me for everything ,he never support me and always stand with family not with me whatever they are right or worng , i feel unwanted from them .i feel i lost everything but get nothing , i done many things to keep them happy but they are not happy with me and my presence in their life , i try to keep my self busy to other things but my mind always struggle with emotion and people , please help me out to this suitation .

akku

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Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure you must be feeling surprised by your husband’s changed behaviour. You have sacrificed so much for this relationship. Have you tried talking about it and how you feel with your husband?
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akku
whenever we had tried to talk he always tring to scape all this, and said to me tum mujhe sabke khilap bhadkati ho and tumhari wajah se mai sabse kat gaya hu ?
akku
i feel so sad that what is my fault in this
akku
His mother is very greedy lady always demanding money from him and manipulate everything and pretanding like victim
Zoya Ahmad
I think you should first try to rebuild your relationship with him. Don’t only talk about his family but talk about your relationship.
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akku
Our relationship was beautiful when we were unmarried , we dont have house we living in rented house , his parents and elder brother lived sepratly in same house last 13 years. mere b sath wo reh nahi payi aur hme paresan karke ghar chorne p majboor kar diya , ab mai samjhati hu ki we need to save money for our house and future than he think somethink else , i unable to understand what should i do ?
akku
mai aur husband rent dene k baad b 15k me expence manage kar lete hai but she taking 25-30 k for two people ,
Zoya Ahmad
I can understand, but I think for sometime you should not bring this topic up. And focus on your relationship. He must also be thinking about your future.
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akku
thanks i will try this , but his behaviour kills me inside , i thought he is mature and senceble person thats why i married him but he is trying to impress other people by money , people take money from him and when he need them ,they keep corner from him after all this he is not understanding things goes wrong with us
Zoya Ahmad
I know this must be the scenario, but right now you actually need to rekindle your relationship with him that he trusts you, then he would automatically know that you are not planning anything bad for his family or him you are only looking to efficient management and secure future.
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akku
sure,Thank you to guide me .
akku
hi
akku
i dont know is my problem is right or not but i am trying to keep everything normal but i could not do this ,Once i hurt from person i dont want to see their face and dont want to talk with him , rightnow i live in my parents house and he left me a week ago and staying with his parents , he called me daily but i dont want to talk because i feel upset from him and he leave me here so that he can live with his parents because his mother and his bhabi dont like me .
akku
sorry doc. but i can not concentrate on my relationship i feel cheated , always a thought comes into my mind that i should go away from his life than he will understand my value. i dont want to be burden on him or my parents , i hate everything which he gave me even my phone too,when i had a job i did not take a single penny from anyone always give to everyone now i depend on my husband and he dont give me that value , he always hide everything to me even his mother phon call ,who i am to him , i was that girl who you want to your life but now i dont have sense understanding, value ,i am nothing to him just a burden ,
akku
he always dominating me , rule on me he thinks i never ask anything to him i always go with him , i am his wife but hi behave me like boss , i cant handle these things, i want to go away from everyones life . i want peace
Zoya Ahmad
I can understand, take some time off. Be with yourself.
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