Self sabotage and impostor syndrome

Question

In the past I've cheated on a guy. I recognize that it was terrible and I've made every effort to come out as a better person since then. But I still feel guilty about it and have been self sabotaging whenever i like somebody. I know that they like me back but I feel like I don't deserve it and push them away. I just can't seem to forgive myself

lazySeagull7 · Answer

It's much harder to live with yourself when you've done the wrong thing instead of being the victim. But you'll have to give yourself a chance. Before you start getting close to somebody else let them know of your history, if they choose to date you knowing the truth then you do not have to feel guilty about it.

chicOatmeal5 · Answer

Cheating is a very bad thing but we've all been problematic in some way or the other. To recover from this you just have to approach relationships more responsibly. Once you're in control of your own action then you'd be much more confident in entering a new relationship.

i am an immature person so don't judge me i am mental patient

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