sibling rivalry at home, depressed

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Hii.i am 18.i have 2 sisters.one is with me from same mother.but another one is from different mother same father. That another one is the older one. Father trust her more than any one. From childhood I got the feeling that she kind of hates me. But when that happens I think we are still sisters .but as I am growing and carefully noticed her actions...I don't think I was wrong.. she really hates me... what am I supposed to do.....she is making life worse for me..is it wrong for me to hate her??

Littlmo

10 Answers
T-India
Well you both are sisters I am sure there must be insecurities but don’t think you both can ever hate each other. Have you tried asking her or have a conversation around this ?
Littlmo
She isn't interested to have conversations with me..if I ask her something like why did you do that?? Why did you complain about me to father?? She just ignore it or say I feel like saying it
Littlmo
I mean she is from another mother..so father thinks she is the Cinderella type here..so he give everything she wants.. but she isn't like Cinderella type.she has done so many bad things... there's a lot
T-India
You will hve to act like the mature one and have to try harder to hve this conversation. She is your blood and you both are sisters. Hate is a strong emotion and try not having it for your sister no matter how bad she is
Littlmo
But I am the younger one.and she is the older one. once I tried to leave home..but when father found me and took me home..she asked me why did I return..she also said it would be better if I wouldn't have returned. I also heard her talking to her friend saying..it would be better if I would have died or never born....I just can't forget this words
T-India
Well don’t listen to her and ignore her. How’s your relationship with your father?
Littlmo
It's quite bad. but not that bad...I don't much talk to him.. actually I don't have much social skill..I mean to say something but the person I am talking to take it differently...i can't express..it in words..but because of older sister has misunderstood me many times.but I really didn't care about that.but now the misunderstanding is on another level.he doesn't even believe me.he only believes her..so I didn't care..but it's worse now a days.
T-India
You need to talk to your father and tell him how you feel. Having this heart conversation will atleast go a long way in mending your relationship with him.
T-India
Just try your best with your sister but don’t hate her. Your a good person so stay the same
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure it must be really difficult for you. I am sure this must be giving a feeling of being left alone. How about your relationship with your mother? How is her behaviour towards you?
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