stressed.

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stressed. no friends to speak my heart out with

Useless · Answer

it's good if you talk you feel more stressed

Sara123 · Answer

I feel like having a friend with whom I just speak and spill out all rather carrying it in my head

Useless · Answer

so write it

Useless · Answer

i can listen but i have trust issues 😑

Sara123 · Answer

sounds great. but in real isn't it difficult.

Sara123 · Answer

trust issues?

Sara123 · Answer

I spoke about writing before this

Useless · Answer

no it's not

Useless · Answer

you can write

Sara123 · Answer

actually, have heard about writing a lot and I did try. wrote all negative feeling, anger, stupid things. later once I got my note and I read it. I got more stressed.

Useless · Answer

why did you read it!

Useless · Answer

write it and the person who is your problem give it to him 😬

Sara123 · Answer

have seen and heard about burning it. but again it also makes feel more like, there's no one who cares

Sara123 · Answer

I dino what to say

Useless · Answer

you should transfer your stress to that person who is given it to you just write and give it to that person

Sara123 · Answer

however, I'm surrounded with people who have pampered me like crazy. they love me. it's all about one tear and they are there. but the mess is, they don't understand what I say. they don't want to hear. it's all about.. we got that.

Sara123 · Answer

that p person will come back with more stress to give back to me

Useless · Answer

tell them Hey listen me first you have to raise your voice once

Sara123 · Answer

all my rights are wrong. I'm trying way too much to balance things. but their comfort zone is different

Sara123 · Answer

I did everything. and I realized after all these years. there's no point.

Sara123 · Answer

can't even move on. I feel like keeping separate from them

Sara123 · Answer

raising voice, doing my way. later left alone making me feel you are of no good. you don't know anything

Sara123 · Answer

and few minutes later, they will come back with my fav. food, or something pampering. feel like a Pampered pet

curiousbobolink9 · Answer

i care you. i love you sara123

Sara123 · Answer

are you there

Sara123 · Answer

hmm I don't even know your name.. useless.. sounds not right. you didn't sound like one

Useless · Answer

tell them get lost

Useless · Answer

see you got someone who loves you

Sara123 · Answer

well I don't need such someone.

Useless · Answer

why?

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

I can so much relate the pain and anxiety of not being able to vent out your problems

Sara123 · Answer

why? I don't need. that's why

Useless · Answer

ohk

Sara123 · Answer

do you have the similar problems

curiousbobolink9 · Answer

accept love from someone who gives you. don't expect from who don't deserve it.

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

everyone wants a 2 way listener in their life otherwise it becomes really difficult

Sara123 · Answer

yes

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

yes @sara123 I do have similar problems.there will be Many people to pamper you but not hear you out

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

it's like a waste of time for them

Useless · Answer

atleast you have someone to pamper 😬

Sara123 · Answer

true

Sara123 · Answer

well if you start feeling like a pet then it's not good. all love but no choice granted to make noise

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

sara123 what do you do to vent out problems?

Sara123 · Answer

I speak with myself. I don't like sharing my issues outside family. so things which bother me, I speak out to myself

curiousbobolink9 · Answer

sara you are gifted

Sara123 · Answer

had just been feeling very very depressed so downloaded this app

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

I really like that solution Sara,but what do you do to get an advice about your thoughts

Sara123 · Answer

however may be tomorrow I'll feel this was stupid

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

same here Sara , even I was having the same feeling

Sara123 · Answer

but I needed good sleep. it gets really difficult to sleep when you are loaded with such things

Sara123 · Answer

what happened with you

Sara123 · Answer

who'll advice me?

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

any advice as in whether your thoughts are correct or what should you do to relieve stress

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

what happened to you Sara

Sara123 · Answer

in between I spoke with counsellor. later I felt how long will I keep paying

Useless · Answer

😬😬😬😬😬

curiousbobolink9 · Answer

sara123 are you there? i'm ready to listen?

Sara123 · Answer

I started feeling that I'm the one who's wrong so thought of taking help. but everyone says the same thing.

Sara123 · Answer

I have lost all my confidence

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

but what happened? why do you feel so

Useless · Answer

what they said @sara

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

yeah confidence issues eat you from within and we always will need validation from a third person

Sara123 · Answer

I like taking my calls. at times you may go wrong also. but pointing out only your wrongs everywhere.. and hardly admiring your rights. and later just leave with saying stop thinking, we'll do. you don't need to. it shatters

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

moreover visiting psychologist often will be expensive and it's not affordable. it's either you have someone to dump down everything that is inside you or you vent it out to yourself

Sara123 · Answer

yes you are right

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

exactly and they will feel that you are always playing the victim card

Useless · Answer

i think you both can help each other well

Sara123 · Answer

that's where in stuck

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

they will not understand what's going on within

Sara123 · Answer

so so very true

Sara123 · Answer

@useless you too have helped me

Useless · Answer

no i didn't

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

you know when they will share their problems with you you will have to be a good listener but when your time comes they will deviate from the topic

Sara123 · Answer

well a few words were nice.. yes the ideas were already known. but thanks for that as well

Sara123 · Answer

yes it's very very true. that's when it makes me feel so scared and low

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

and my problem is day by day I am becoming very mean minded and I am trying hard to have a pure heart.i know it sounds a bit strange but yes that's how it is

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

I am getting angry in each and everything

Sara123 · Answer

it's the same happening with me as well

Sara123 · Answer

and I have no clue what to do. how to stop this as its like losing real you

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

exactly Sara, it is so painful to lose one's innocence

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

same here I am getting no clue , no one to discuss this with that's more disgusting

Useless · Answer

make a group

Useless · Answer

i will also join

Sara123 · Answer

how to make a group. I donno

Useless · Answer

telegram you hav

Sara123 · Answer

no

Useless · Answer

what you have?

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

can we create a group here

Sara123 · Answer

is it possible?

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

I just installed this app, dunno :/

pacifiedsausage9 · Answer

there's a chat option what's that for

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