stressed because of strained relationship with mother

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stressed because of strained relationship with mother

I am educated woman but twice divorced and at parents house but here too nobody understands me. My mother whom I loved so much also behaves rudely. I am becoming stress patient

gutturalMuesli2

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Sunshineme
what's the reason she is behaving rudely. what she says?
Zoya Ahmad
Hey! Thanks for reaching out. Have you tried talking to her about why is her behaviour changing towards you?
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gutturalMuesli2
reason Is she also not able to accept my divorce
Zoya Ahmad
Why so? There must be some reason.
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gutturalMuesli2
due to my ex husband I am suffering mental stress till now
gutturalMuesli2
if she says something I am not able to forget as I have become sensitive so any criticism I cannot handle. I don't leave the point which I get hurt from
gutturalMuesli2
I ask my mother why she said then she also gets irritated
gutturalMuesli2
my ex husband s behavior has affected my mental health.
gutturalMuesli2
i get anxiety and stress .
gutturalMuesli2
words she speak I think constantly as I cannot take criticism from her. I get hurt from words
Zoya Ahmad
I understand, it must be overwhelming for you. I think you should talk to her, and discuss about how her words have been affecting you.
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gutturalMuesli2
my first husband just ignored me as his mother had depression and he wanted me to take care of her which was not possible as I used to get scared to see her because she used to behave not properly with me.
gutturalMuesli2
second husband was very aggressive I was very scared of him . and mother in law didn't wanted to give me kitchen . I got ocd from there as I felt about hygienic issues in kitchen and she thought she was very clean
gutturalMuesli2
she actually didn't want to leave kitchen hold
gutturalMuesli2
husband ignored me remove from house due to small things. and I was not strong enough to handle and make relationship with my husband.
gutturalMuesli2
I was in constant fear due to mother in law in first marriage and due to husband in second marriage.
gutturalMuesli2
this all has damaged my personality my self esteem and created insecurity in me
gutturalMuesli2
I love my mother and don't want to make her upset. I love my parents but then too cannot find harmony peace in parents house too.
gutturalMuesli2
reality is that I had loved my both husbands then too could not remain with them.
gutturalMuesli2
my both husbands moved on but I am still alone .single and just think that maybe this is my destiny where I cannot have husband
gutturalMuesli2
I don't interact with parents relatives as some of them think about my stigma of divorce and I hate taunts and I am insecure that relatives may also say something to my parents and make me out of my parents home too.
gutturalMuesli2
as some people have tendency of jealousy that I should be out of parents house too.
gutturalMuesli2
I am woman of good character good education but the stigma of divorce has broken my self confidence
Zoya Ahmad
I can understand. I think you have been holding up a lot inside you. Let’s connect over a session to discuss everything and how we can both work on you and make things better for you.
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gutturalMuesli2
thanks .
gutturalMuesli2
for understanding me. I got so much relief by sharing my problems.
Zoya Ahmad
I am glad you did.
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