I think I'm in a toxic relationship but I'm not sure yet. I feel like I need to lie to my boyfriend to make him love me. He only shows me any genuine affection when I'm going through a terrible time. Until and unless I'm crying or depressed, he doesn't care what I do. Thus I keep acting like a damsel in distress in front of him. I know this is not right but I really love him, can somebody give me any advice?