Hey! Thanks for reaching out. I am sure you must be stressed, do you mint telling what exactly happened?
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trustingIcecream7
Well i live with my grandparents and they are very strict and oppresive .my parents never speak against them and frankly there is always constant environment of fear in the house cuz you can never go against them we gotta hide basic things like eating out or buying something for ourselves from them
trustingIcecream7
also my father is like a small child who will never speak up or is always trying to please his parents
trustingIcecream7
I have seen my mother literally cryung everyday and my parents fight everyday cuz of this we never really have a family like session where all of us sit together and enjoy or talk and its cuz of this
trustingIcecream7
There is always some drama going on someone crying something going on constantly
trustingIcecream7
when i look back at my life i feel was actually ruined i ahd no confidence no identity of myself or anything. And my life was ruined. I got into toxic relationships and had too many toxic habits and too stringent beliefs which i was scared to let go. So thinking that my family and kind of house that i have been born into which is bascially just my fate cuz all my friends are born into good houses. I feel so frustrated and sad that it is just me who needs to go through this
jhaynedoe
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I feel you. It's frustrating. They say go to therapy. I wish I had tried it when I had hope. I realize sometimes I am just recreating the same tense feeling I had everyday living with my parents...wondering what the argument would be...every good day being riddled with tiny arguments or tears.
Zoya Ahmad
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I see, i can only imagine how difficult it must be for you and your mother.
You should actually try to change the situation. Do you think you can talk to your father for some assertiveness in family?
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trustingIcecream7
I have a lot of times :) and it hasnt resulted nicely like i have got shouted and scremed at and that too at late at night : he stopped talking to me and frankly there was a lot of crying and everything :) you know what my mom is strict and lot of times i hate her but in future the thought that i ll be living a good life and she stilk would have to work like a servant in this house makes me feel like crying i wanna make a good life
trustingIcecream7
okkay i guess i do need therapy is there any way i can pay without anyone in the family knowing
trustingIcecream7
I will be going to college but just leaving the house doesnt solve anything and yess i actually feel bad for my mother . i dont want her to rot and waste her life in this house
Zoya Ahmad
3
Yeah! Let’s connect over a session
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