Trauma of a relationship

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I lost my dad for covid an year ago. Due to emotional breakdown I got into a relationship. After few months when marriage talks started. Our family came to know that he was a divorcee. After that it became very depressed but my family pressurize me to get into arrange marriage as that's my dad's wish . I am getting arrange marriage anxiety but my family is not understanding this. I feel like a third wheel in this family and a burden to all. Someone who was a friend for 3 yrs cheated me by hiding his divorce. How can I trust another new one for arrange marriage. Now I just miss my dad. Feeling he went for some trip and will be back home soon to sort out all my problems.

lovesickchocolate

7 Answers
Sunshineme
it must be hard on you. Your father will appreciate that you have become the person u r today. i understand how u must be feeling. You can meet the guy and take your time before getting married. The decision is about your life you can take ur time
Samairah
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Have you spoken to the groom your getting married too? How do you feel with him? I don’t know but don’t rush it
kindHyena6
I am sorry to hear that. I am sure it must be really difficult for you. I think you are taking the right decision, because he is definitely not the right choice in your life. Why did he even lie to you when you guys were friends. Try to accept this new change and try to be positive about it.
lovesickchocolate
No, groom is not fixed yet. I am just too scared to trust new person. All are using my emotional breakdown 😢
kindHyena6
That’s even better, give yourself a chance to know the other person before marriage and then take a decision. Try to figure what are your expectations from marriage and discuss it with the one you are parents are suggesting you to consider.
lovesickchocolate
I too scared that a person who I know for 3 long years cheated me. How long should I take to trust this new person when i could talk to him for 5 to 10 mins before engament
Samairah
3
Well give yourself time and say yes only when you feel right. After all it’s your life😊

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