so i was in relationshipnwith this girl for 5 years and im 25 she is 21. she dumped me. says it was to be done as she was confused about me also had the guilt inside of family. so she took the step and said that the relationship became intense to her. and affected her. after breakup its been more than a month and she is enjoying her life. she meet a lot of different guys, drinks alcohol. is busy in life and is enjoying. meanwhile i couldnt even leave my bed and i am very heartbroken. i am so sad that i do nothing. i asked her if we can come back and she said no. not now never in future. it hurts a lot as i was very good to her. and it is killing me. help.