unfulfilled expectation from husband

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I want my husband to love me and care for me.. I want to spend some quality time with him... I want to go for honeymoon with him . I want that he gives me surprise of honeymoon to some snowy place and where we can get settled forever then .. I want that my husband treats me like his queen..

mildWigeon7

17 Answers
Samairah
How’s he treating you now? How’s your relationship with him?
mildWigeon7
He is very short tempered.. he hides many things.. he doesn't know how much he hurts me when he is angry... N later he doesn't bother to ask how is the hurt ... Whether cured or not .. until I say him that you didn't even ask or didn't even do this .. he won't do .. the moment I say him. .. he asks .. I feel hurted as there's no one else..
mildWigeon7
I feel like doing suicide... As I don't know why m I alive...
Samairah
I am sorry how you are feeling. Have tried having a conversation regarding this with him? Share how he makes you feel. If he continues or doesn’t change then you need to seriously think about this marriage
mildWigeon7
But I m the one among those who would rather kill myself instead of doing divorce.. as I got married just as my parents said yes
Samairah
Then talk to him and try working it out. I am sure you can
mildWigeon7
I did many times but it is not possible for him
Samairah
Well you have to do something about it and having this feeling ain’t right and healthy. Probably involve elders and have a word about this
mildWigeon7
He cries for every small things... I get hurt... I feel I m doing something wrong...
dreadfulMuesli0
How long have you been married?
mildWigeon7
9 months ago
mildWigeon7
He doesn't know how to give surprise
mildWigeon7
He doesn't know how to flirt.. he doesn't know many things..
dreadfulMuesli0
See you had arranged marriage n it takes long time to complete understand each each in such marriages.You both are facing compatibility issues. Do you both live alone or with other family members too?
dreadfulMuesli0
Nuclear or joint family?
mildWigeon7
Nuclear... If I get ready he won't comment.... Not a single word... I feel hurted... So once I said him... U don't even comment if I get ready.... Then u know wat he does.... He comments for every stupid things... Like nice u r looking... Even if I didn't get ready....
mildWigeon7
Today again he hit me.. I feel like I should not exist in this world.. Don't feel to talk to anyone...

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