Have you tried talking to her about how you feel and what kind of relationship you expect with her.
pridefulCurlew0
Yes, i tried bud she says that i’m just mistake and i had no choise, i just can listen to her because i am her child
ferventFlamingo1
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I'm sorry for you , idk the solution for this but I pray for you to get the life you desire
pridefulCurlew0
Thanks guys❤️ You had ni idea how much this help me
excitedTomatoe7
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You could talk to her about how you feel. Communication is the key! I know how it feels, but you gotta let her know how it's been affecting you
pridefulCurlew0
I really tried so many times, but sometimes she whop me and then i’m really scared…
excitedTomatoe7
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Is there any way you can move out for studies or job? Perhaps a few days apart and the distance will make her grow fond of you
pridefulCurlew0
I’m only 14 and i can’t choose high school and worde of this, i can’t see my friends after school, because i need cleaning so…
excitedTomatoe7
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Damn that's terrible! But whatever time you have, spend it doing what you love the most. Keep yourself occupied so that your mother's words do not bother you. You could talk to your father or any elder sibling and see if they can make your mother understand. However, I feel this is just a phase. As you grow, your relationship with your mother will continue to grow deeper and stronger. I'm sure she loves you deep down. Maybe she needs to show it in better ways, but I'm sure this will pass. But until then, you hang in there and stay positive and happy from within :)