My boyfriend think I'm overthinking too much and that im o ly hurting myself.....
Sackofpotatoes
I cry way too much.... Idk how not to
s_chirps
1
Hello Sackofpotatoes,
Sometimes we are pre occupied in our own thoughts that we are not able to see the clear picture.
You should ask yourself some of these questions and maybe it will help you see the picture clearly.
If he doesn't care about you then what motivates him to talk to you when his phone is already confiscated.
Do you feel you are over thinking?? If yes, then why is that.
Why do you think he doesn't care about your feelings?
Why he doesn't have time for you? is it because of his phone being confiscated or he is being watched over or he is not interested in you anymore.
Hope it helps.
Z_Zidane
1
Hey Sackofpotatoes,
I understand that you've a lot of thoughts going on in your head but I feel that you both should talk about it and clear it out rather than having these unwanted noises in your head. Communication is the key to any relationship and that's what I believe will get you through this. Tc and keep us updated
Sackofpotatoes
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Sackofpotatoes
Sometimes I can't tell whether I'm overthinking or not........ And yeah he is being watched.... By his mom... I think he doesn't care because... When I talk about what's bothering me he alomst alwyAs cuts short the conversation and leaves (he says it's coz of his mom and stuff) and like when he comes back later also he doesn't finish the conversation... And he says it's because by the time he comes back I send many other texts so he gets confused as to which to reply to.... Soche doesn't reply to anything
Sackofpotatoes
Yes yesterday we spoke and resolved a lot if things bw us but we didn't enough time to finish discussing
Later that evening after he went to play, when he come back he told me that he had to kiss his ex-crush(they had a thing for each other and he openly admitted to her being prettier than me coz just before we had a convo about not lying to each other about annnnyyythinnggg so he said if he said i was prettier than her he would be lying.... And that made me feel insecure... I told him I felt insecure and he was just like but you have no reason to be
Sackofpotatoes
He told me that he had to kiss her sooooo cassuuualllyyyyy like it isn't a big deal at all and stuff... He confessed at the first chance he got... The only good thing he did🙄
I found it VerY disrespectful that he agreed to do the dare... And he had to kiss her twice! Once on the elbow and once on her hand and the people that played they are all from the same apartment and they know he has a girlfriend but they still forced him to do it??
I mean it is only on the hand but it's wrong!
Sackofpotatoes
I stopped talking to him... My best friend texted him screwing the shit out of him and then this is what he said..... I'll copy paste it....
Sackofpotatoes
I also sat on a guys lap and had to spank a guy for a dare. I am guilty of what I did. I realise that it was wrong. But you should know what actually happened I didn't kiss her hand. I just held it for 2 seconds and kissed my own hand. I know I am lucky to call b my girl because she is one of the prettiest and most caring person I've ever met. I do not wanna go kissing girls. It's not like I kept this from b. I told at the first chance I got because that kiss didn't have any meaning. It was nothing more then a dare. I agreed to the dare because the stakes were too high. So everyone playing the game decided that the person who does the least dares had to do the worst dare possible.
Sackofpotatoes
That's what he said^^^
He acted like he kissed her???
Sackofpotatoes
It doesn't even make sense and he felt guilty for kissing his own hand then???
Sackofpotatoes
It's his birthday tomorrow I haven't spoke to him at all..... But I did text him from my friends account... Like as her...
Sackofpotatoes
Through a couple of mutual friends we asked the girl he kissed about it ... The convo went like this...
Mutual friend: broo I heard abj kissed your hand?? Apparently it happened
The girl he claimed to kiss : wtf no
Sackofpotatoes
How cam he say stakes were too high?? I mean doing the worst dare of the game is higher than disrespecting his girlfriend?? And risking loosing her??
Sackofpotatoes
He was like in Europe ppl greet each other by kissing on the cheek so it isn't wrong???
s_chirps
Hello Sackofpotatoes,
Based on your above msg, it can be understood that you are very angry and you cannot ignore that fact that he kissed another girl's hand. First just calm down and don't do anything which you are doing because of this anger. Some years down the line you won't remember these small things. If he told you at the first time then he obviously is serious about you and don't want to hide anything. And sometimes the things are not in your control and you just regret it later. You are making it a big deal which will only push him away and add more problems to your life. You need to have trust in your relationship, and if that's missing then it will be a big problem for you. Either trust him or if you don't believe him then there is no point in continuing this relationship.
Sackofpotatoes
So he was dared twice... First time he kissed his own hand while holding her hand and the next time he actually kissed her elbow and he said he thinks what he did wasn't wrong buecasue he kissed his own hand once and it's not like he kissed her on her face or anything.... And he doesn't understand how that's disrespectful... How do I explain it to him??
