My bf betrayed my trust

Question

my bf lied to me that he is a virgin. He lied to me that he had a gf with whom he had physical relationship almost more than 7-8 times.  I am a 24 virgin woman I always wanted good character virgin man. He never asked for sex to me within this 1 year relationship. But few days ago he confessed that he had a physical relationship before. He said past is past and boy's past doesn't matter that much I will earn for you. This broke my heart even more. First of all he lied to me then he made excuses to justify his actions. It has been almost 3 days still I am depressed about this thought and feeling less attracted and affectionate towards my bf. Shall I break up? I think I will be not happy with him any more.

lifeless · Answer

yes

grizzledshads8 · Answer

he called me close minded woman. he thinks premarita sex   is not a big deal

lifeless · Answer

u may not love him like before

lifeless · Answer

he is close minded person to think boys past doesn't matter

grizzledshads8 · Answer

yes, cause the first thing I wanted a virgin man. and second thing, he broke my trust. You are right I think I should break up.

lifeless · Answer

first think... if u can do this r not

lifeless · Answer

think about this don't take immediate action

shivam001 · Answer

did you ask him that is he virgin or not before your relationship? and did you comfort him that he can  say things like that about his past physical connection ?or just you assumed that he is virgin and for that reason he is scared to tell you that.?

shivam001 · Answer

its not big deal to have sex for both of you  (for men and women). if you dont like it its your choice to break up with him. but dont make him feel like he did wrong  everyone has a past  we cant change past  if you love him look for efforts not past.. good luck

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