I'm so confused about this situation and want your advice/help.

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I'm scared of my future wife/gf because in my religion i can't touch a woman who's not mine (not my wife)  and she can't wear crop tops or bikini  she has to dress respectfully so i get confused will that make them safer or not because some girls all they look for is sex and i will not be able to even touch her.    me personally I'm quite ripped i go to the gym and have a good physic curly hair with cars and a nice house so i can take care of her in all sorts of ways but do you think if i told her that i can't touch her because of religious purposes but I'll vist het parents and take good care of her she will respect my boundaries and be loyal and stay with me or she would stay with me bec. of the money and just have sex with another guy I'm genuinely worried about that because nowadays everyone cheats.

sorewidgeon0 · Answer

your morals are good, i have similar ones, but we are in the wrong generation, we are more of a person who focuses on long term stuff like marriage and family. people these days focus on living in the moment. find a religious woman, don't go after modern women. women these days are no different than men. they are just good at pretending, if you say you don't want to touch them they might say they are okay with it but they'll look for alternative stuff or do stuff behind your back.

sadanddepressed · Answer

but how do i find out that she is doing stuff behind my back

cynicalthrush8 · Answer

if you will marry her, then you can touch her with her consent ...right..?...or am I missing something in what you have mentioned

sorewidgeon0 · Answer

man they should work on this app notifications those are important stuff.  and about knowing if she is doing stuff behind your back.  you won't know,  women are really good at it.  I knew guys who found out that the kid They had wasn't theirs after many years, that's how good women are doing stuff behind your back.

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