it’s so tough for you. Have you informed your parents about these incidents or anyone in the family?
it'll ruin our family...my sister has two kids ...m scared to say anything...what if it turns out worse for me
well imagine he did this to you and what can he do to those kids?
he is a threat to the society
Dear, you need to take a stand for yourself, just imagine what will your nephew and neice might have to suffer if they grow into such a family, you speak to your mother, and tell her everything, this is a very serious issue, please don't ignore it, i have been through it too, please please don't ignore this.
its up to you do you really wanna share it with your family or not
i know this will be hard for you to hear especially in your situation but please get proof any proof at all that is clear and easy to understand. a secret recording of them admiting it to you or just talking about it. i say this because even though the others are your family and friends they might not believe you without proof and thats truely sad. however none of this was your falt and you should make sure that anyone you tell knows you will not let them trample over your trama and bad experiences. cut who ever dares to blame, shame or discriminate you out of your life no matter how hard it seems it would be better without them.
it does not matter if he has kids. he did this to you without a thought of the implications it might have on his kids if it got out so you should not be so kind to him to keep his disgusting behaviour from everyone. if you have even a bit of faith in the police go to them with any proof at all you have and make sure everyone who cares about you knows what they did to you. they do not deserve your kindness. 🤗hugs love
i dnt have any proof...but all of you are wonderful...i just wanted to say it out loud to someone...i might never heal but it makes me feel a little ok...have been sad and angry for so long... crying dnt help...can't sleep... can't take it off... can't take my skin off... it irritates me
i never thought i would say this to a complete stranger but i love you and im proud of you 😄🤗. just saying what you have been through here is very strong of you and i admire that. your not ugly your not dirty and your value can only be determined by you so dont let any stituation or person determine that. your awesome so dont be angry, see this as a stepping stone to get ahead of all your problems. btw did i mention you are awsome.....oh yeah i did 😅