Misunderstanding in relationship

Question

I sleep with my boyfriend, on call, everyday. One day, i told him that I'd call him like really late because i had an exam the next day. I studied the entire day. And called him at 2 in the night. The call woke him up, he put his earphones on and we tried to sleep. The next min, he starts talking about how unsafe he was. I was totally confused. I  think he was sleep talking. He called my name out and said ' Someone's coming for Anna. I want to be there for her. I want to protect her.' There were rumours saying that anna like my boyfriend and they spent time talking to each other. I mean.... I didn't care about the rumours. But that what he said, made me all sad. I felt disgusting. I hung up. He kept calling me after that. But those words were still in my head and i could still hear the way he said it. It was like he was scared. I am confused. Should i end this relationship?

ferventFlamingo1 · Answer

What ? No no Don't end relationship for this , relax  , he might have been did that by mistake in sleep , just forgive him , he may be tired , I know it hurts you but ending relationship for this is not good , he seems he need some sleep

troubledSmelt6 · Answer

Yeah sure

R_anjum · Answer

I think you should talk to him and clear this. Talk about how you felt.

troubledSmelt6 · Answer

Toxic

ferventFlamingo1 · Answer

Thank you for your help

troubledSmelt6 · Answer

You should let go of her. I'm doing the same right now.

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Not at all. He was probably muttering in his sleep. He means you no harm. It was perhaps just a harmless dream. Don't act just yet. Maybe you could ask him and talk to him about it, you might feel better. Unless you find a real solid proof of him going behind your back and seeing her, I see no reason for you to end this relationship

troubledSmelt6 · Answer

I think i made a mistake. He is not even sorry for that. He says we're done.

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

He says you guys are done coz you asked him about the dream?

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

That's no reason to end a relationship. Sounds lame to me. That's no way to comfort your girl!

troubledSmelt6 · Answer

But i do love him a lot

troubledSmelt6 · Answer

I cared of him a lot. He does this everytime. Always brings up his ex in our conversations and yesterday night? It was hard for me.

ferventFlamingo1 · Answer

If He brings his ex to your convos ,I think he's really into you , he just making you to feel jealous , some boys would do this , give hime some more chance

ferventFlamingo1 · Answer

I don't know why in every relationship one works hard to keep it and ended up getting hurt and other works to end it asap and always hurt other one

troubledSmelt6 · Answer

Makes me jealous everytime we talk?

troubledSmelt6 · Answer

I'm was trying my best to keep this relationship going. He spoils everything for us.

hushedGarlic5 · Answer

It's better if you would just sit down with him and talk about it.

am I dumb I'm 18

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