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#seeking advice(Help!!!) Hey i helped everyone here but i need help now from you guys.. Actually i have been in a relationship from 7 years.. Now we were having some disturbance and i felt ignored so i gave him some space then he came back and sent me massages making me emotional but his actions are totally different... Today I met him to communicate about everything nd i asked her to focus on career nd he was like looking here nd there, chewing gums and not listening to me... Then i hold his hand to say bye nd he was very uncomfortable ...after 7 year i m feeling very helpless and hopeless.. What can i do??? Nd what is happenjng with me right now???

nikki123nikki

8 Answers
Samairah
4
Well I understand you gave him space. Since when has behaviour been like this with you?
nikki123nikki
1 year
Samairah
4
Just be straight forward around this and ask him what’s bothering him.
nikki123nikki
Actually he is wasting his time with frnds suddenly and he is not even focusing in his career nd started talking to random girls ..Nd don't talk to me like before.... Nd m pretty sure he is not having any problem right now
Samairah
4
Well if he is talking to random girls then you shouldn’t be normal about it. Infact you should find out why is he behaving like this
nikki123nikki
Okay... But how can i find out??
Samairah
1
Talk to him directly and have a conversation.
nikki123nikki
Well i tried to talk to him... He again broke up with me... As always If i stay quite and allow everything he was ok with that When i try to take a stand for me and try to communicate he is like I ll do what ever i wanna do who the hell are you