you can vent here

but no one is listening

WE'RE LISTENING WYM

i am... tell me what's bothering you

recently got graduated and lost touch with maximum people.. and my supposedly best friend turned out to be selfish and needed me only till college.. i have her and her problems so much of my time but now she was making a face on even doing my small work I had where she lives and i will not even take her 2-3 hrs..

don't know whom to talk to anymore

my brother recently got married and everyone has seemed to forgotten me and treats me like i am not a family member anymore

No one belongs to anyone. If you stop expecting too much from others, all your problems will go away.

i have been depending on myself and my strength for too long now.. feels like i am breaking now

my brother got married 2 days ago... I can maybe relate to you

try to make some friends? I have some I can call my own because I was there for them when they needed me. so I know they'll be there for me too

it's not like i don't have friends but i prioritised 1 over others and i was there for her every bad phase and breakdowns but now she is talking to me like she is doing me a very big favor

and not like she came to me for every little thing till 1 month back

Don't think that everyone we stand with will be with us. Sometimes someone else can be with us instead of them.

cut out ties with her then?

yes you are right but everytime the person i supported don't support me back , i can't go again and again making more deep friendship.. it hurts..

i've also had a lot of toxic friends but I cut them off my life... if she's not there for you when you need her, get a new friend...

yes John will behave the same way she is behaving with me

If you don't feel that she is being honest with you in return, then you should leave her friendship without keeping any grudges.

i don't get much time for being social due to studies and the more someone hurt me the more I get into a bigger shell.. has happened a lot of times now.. dont know how everyone uses me and throws me

hey behaving like her will just make you a toxic person too... try ignoring her and finding new friends maybe?

focus on your studies and bulid your career... these people will be envying you in the future I can guarantee it

yes I meant that only.. that I will ignore her.. but the issue is my family who i think forgot that I am their family member

but whole day studying is taking a toll.. nobody to talk to the whole day..

sorry to say If someone is taking advantage of you, it is your incompetence. Be strong

i talk to a few friends here and there but can't talk to them about everything

yes deep thinker how to overcome this? i am too soft and easily made a fool by anyone..

do you have telegram @hello1234m if yes we can talk there?

hey yes..

okay then tell me your id... I'll message you there

Avoid blindly trusting people!

First understand that not everyone who is close to us is our friend.

Don't be friendly with anyone immediately after talking a little. Be friendly only after getting to know someone better.

yes I will take that into action..

but i think I will have to bear with no friends and family for a while..

you tell your telegram id here without any hesitation. All these make your character more sensitive.

@deep thinker telegram is just like IamEars, you can maintain total anonymity there. it's not like insta, whatsapp or any other social media

There are chances of getting scammed anywhere. Don't rush things that's what i meant!

i agree... but I've got 2 friends on telegram from this app and they've helped me in the past... I haven't been scammed and I don't intend to scam anyone as well