body shaming

Question

I'm a female in my late 20s. I weigh below 40 kgs and am very lean. I do not have any underlying issue, I've always been thin. I visited my native and my entire maternal and paternal families body shamed me and asked me if i don't eat. They said I look like a school kid. I feel extremely demotivated and suicidal due to their words. They always mentally torture me

Vickey · Answer

No, it's a good benefits for u,  u are so fit

alertchile0 · Answer

if you want to put on some weight than you should consult a nutritionist

bearwiththickhead · Answer

Don't let them, fight this thing and gain weight if you feel like it

alertchile0 · Answer

and people say things in family gathering...they are saying it just because they need to make a talk but nobody really hate or dislike you for being slim

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

I cannot gain weight no matter how much I eat. I just cannot. I've always been thin. I feel bad when they praise other girls for being tall and healthy but body shame me. They are not willing to accept me as I am

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Once even my 8 year old cousin said I don't look good

Vickey · Answer

No don't be sad for all the negative comments, I know u are better than all

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

I also lost my grandfather today .. all these emotions are too much to take in 😔

Vickey · Answer

RIP, We are always with u

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

I wish God had taken me instead of him. Everybody hates me for looking like this. Probably no one will marry me also most guys prefer chubby girls

alertchile0 · Answer

so the thing you want is to look good ?

alertchile0 · Answer

that's not true excitedtomato

Vickey · Answer

No, Not all the boys like chubby, somes are like Fit just like u

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@alertchile0- I used to think I look good..but here everybody is asking me .. kaise lg rhe ho .. kya ho gya h tumhe.. khana nhi khate ho.. Now I've lost that confidence

Vickey · Answer

Unka kaam hai kehna aap use ignore Karo, and apne studies pe focus Karo,

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Kaise studies.. I'm in my late 20s. Everybody thinks I'm in school looking at my body

alertchile0 · Answer

I hear exact same comments in my family gathering too.

Vickey · Answer

Focus on ur career, and achieve something big, kyunki log successful logo ke body pe focus nahi karte

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Job bhi nhi h 😭

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

@alertchile0- like what?

Vickey · Answer

are koi nahi abhi Puri life bachi hai

alertchile0 · Answer

same as yours. And I have realised that many people say this just to make a conversations and some are just jealous...as they also want to get slim

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Hmm.. i don't even want to get married. People will say ye kaisi bachi si dulhan h 😪 My relatives aren't supportive either

alertchile0 · Answer

and if you yourself feel like you need to put on some weight then nutritionist and gyms are always there

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

It's impossible for me to gain weight. people think I don't eat but that's not true. I've seen people eat lesser than me and they are fine. My parents are slim too

Vickey · Answer

oh it's good for u, u are so fit

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

I'm not fit.. I'm extremely thin. Look at my age and weight. late 20s and 37kg

Vickey · Answer

ok after marriage ur weight gain automatically

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

How?

Vickey · Answer

Btw where are you from

alertchile0 · Answer

there are different body types, and accordingly different types of excersise and food. You can if you want to

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

India

Vickey · Answer

Great do some Exercises and eat some good food, after few months u gain ur weight

excitedTomatoe7 · Answer

Thanks

Vickey · Answer

yeah and u can ever contact, we are always with u

bearwiththickhead · Answer

if you ever decide to gain weight, just know a diet plan is all it takes

ItsHarshithere · Answer

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